Dynamic Enterprizes: YOU AND YOURSELF

Dynamic Enterprizes: YOU AND YOURSELF: It is a fact which most people do not want to accept that we all have two personalities, one for the outside world and one which confronts us daily when we are alone and look at ourselves in the mirror. We all want to be accepted by the world we are living and especially at work and in our friend circle. To be able to this we portrait sometimes what we are not. We look at the requiremmnets necessary for acceptance then we alter our personality accordingly. Sometimes we are so successfull with this metamorphoses that we become somone els instead of being ourselves all the time. Being like others and to be accepted by others is a daunting task, because we must always be alert that people might find out who we really are. Being yourself helps you to develop the self. Portraying what we are not do not help us in the long run because people have a very sharp sense of discovering the truth. The person who is the happiest and can employ his /her abilities the best, is the person who knows himself/herself and his/her abilities. A false image create false personalities and false personalities normally have to live a false life which inherently makes them unhappy. The world is full of such individuals and we find them mostly in rich and famous circles. At the ordinary way of life people tend to be less pretentious because they believe their is nothing to gain, but at the famous level people will pretend because they believe they have much to gain. This, unfortunately, occurs far more amongst woman than men, although both sexes have these tendencies.
When those who pretend that they are someone they are not, failing in their attempt to impress others or grind their way into a circle of importance, they become miserable and life loses its worth. These people have a high suicidal rate. Unfortunately true success only comes with honest, real efforts and self-discipline which at the end bring true rewards. It does not matter who you are you can only perform with abilities you were dealt with at birth. Whether it is beauty or being a genius or ordinary skills, one cannot do more what these abilities allow

you to do. Some individuals during their whole life endeavoring to be someone they can never be and that makes them unhappy and disgruntled people.