There are at least three triangles which is very important at certain stages. The first one is THE EMTIONAL TRIANGLE and sometimes refered to as the Lust triangle. This normally take place if one falls in love at first sight. Time does not have any meaning and so reasonable commen sence. All we react on is what we see and how it stirs the emotion in us. If both sexes experience this then being together, hold and feel one another is the only commen sence we know. Getting pysically involved and having sex for long periods of time only matters. Our eyes and common sence are blured because of the intense feeling we experience. Negative does not make sence only positive counts. Our days are obsessed with one another and being away form is other is a desaster. Fortunately or unfortunately these intense periods are not everlasting. it normally has a short lifespan. Somewhere one happening triggers normality and reality and usually, it takes place after an argument. Many couples decide to get married during this period for good or bad. Research has shown that these marraiges normally do not last long for more reasons than one because when reality and common sence prevails individuals se one another for what they really are. This relationship is normally bond together by emotions and when the emotion quiets down and reality kicks in negative and positive aspects commence to make sense. If the relations are built on emotion then reality overrides it and couples experience the real person behind the emotion. All the flaws overlooked during the hight of emotion now have to be dealt with and sometimes it does not stand the test of time. To see beauty in dressed up form is different to look at raw beauty busy waking up in the morning. Smal insignificant habbits become irretating and cause many disagreements and arguments which are the detroyers of any relationship if not handle with care. Feelings of self-worth starts to dominate the scene and before we know it disaster happens, namely the break up of the relationship or a very unhappy marraiged. Because this relationships are build on emotion it is sometimes dangerous to remain in this relationship because emotion can sometimes destroy personalities, physically or mentally. The mental destruction is the worst because woman if the period goes on for a while felt totally destroyed and to recover from that is a slow painstacking process. I have dealt with many woman metally destroyed by their husbands. The feel totally useless and their self worth is very low. Their confidence suffer which make it difficult to survive successfully. Men seem to recover quicker and may have little damage physically than women.
My experience tells me to advise that this may be a wonderful experience but do not form
permanent relationships during this point in time. It will become very clear when I deal with other love triangles.
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