INNER SELF

There are many individuals who are lost in themselves because they have never discover the real self which entails that they live a life of what the believe is acceptable to the world around them. that is what we call the portrait self instead of the real self. Unfortunately when we live the portrait self we endeavor to please the world instead of our self. We act according to the norms set by the world even if it makes us unhappy. This restrict us of being our self because our world expect us to act in a certain manner. The most common example is the student who completes metric and wish to enter university but who has no clue what to study. His heart tells him to follow a certain direction but the community expect him to follow in his father of mother's footsteps being a doctor, architect or whatever. To please the community and the wishes of his parents he follow what is directed to him. While studying he know that this is not what he wants but to please he carries on and complete the course. Once he enters the working world he realizes he is not happy in himself and his career and unhappiness commence in his life. Some stuck it out and continue to be unhappy and miserable but others make a life decision to follow their dreams. To do that they achieve that, they have to defy society and go it alone. These are painful decisions but if you are really convinced that it is your life and your happiness you have to follow your heart. Unfortunately a lot of time and energy is wasted instead of finding yourself first then make a decision to follow your dream
The real self is when an individual form day one makes a concussion decision to find himself first and then decide on action. We are in the business of helping those who really want to find themselves, knowing what their abilities and capabilities are before they make a life decision.To be happy and successful in life is more important to please others. When you are unhappy and unsuccessful self doubt plagues you and your self confidence, self worth and self image suffers. Without the latter being strong and healthy you will never reach the goals you are capable of. Unfortunately your attitude rubs off on the people around you and you are treated accordingly. Some individuals become failures in life because of their attitude not because they do not have the abilities, but because they have an failure attitude. Myself I had to learn this lesson late in life, but I am thankful that at one stage in my life I realize to know your abilities and capabilities and what you are good at is far more important for a happy and successful life than to please others. Once you find yourself you become more confidant which assist you self image and self worth the corner stones for success.
Why go through life miserable, unhappy and deem yourself a failure if you can turn this around and become the person you can be. Self doubt and underlying fear go hand in hand with a fetus attitude where everything seem unattainable or out of your reach. Do not envy others anymore. Become yourself and what you are capable of in your own right whether it be an electrician, doctor or whatever because life reward those who utilize their own to the best of their ability.
We can and will help you to achieve your goals successfully, just contact us at eddieelene@gmail.com and turn your life around today.