Life

Those who are alive experience life differently and all experience are personal and have a history belonging to us. Life as we know it has a beginning and an end but in between we have a role to fulfill. Some of us enjoy life and have good health while some of us experience imaginable trauma which we have to cope with. Some of us can deal with the ups and downs while others just cannot cope and life becomes a burden. We are born with a destiny and whether we like it or not we have to cope what we are dealt with. I was born into a poor family, where alcohol plays a major role and where violence was at the order of the day. We learn to cope at our mother and fathers knees and that assist us to built up a healthy self confidence. However if these knees are not available and a steady anchor is not available our self confidence, self image and self worth do not develop we are and will become vulnerable. Life then becomes a scary place and we develop stress to cope with our environment. So much so that some cannot handle it and become paralyzed by their fear and developed introvert tendencies which eventually cripple our health. Our medicine cabinet gives temporarily relieve and as the stress takes hold some of us give up and become drug addicts just to live. For others the stress makes us depressed and some of us eventually took our own lives. 

Some of us seek help and let other professionals help us to cope. Those who really wants to cope develop with the help of professionals mechanisms to cope with the stress. Others are lucky they create a very balance personality with good self confidence, self worth and a good self image. Life to them becomes a positive challenge which they use to carve out a career for themselves. Luckily these are the majority of individuals. However those who do not have it so lucky have a choice to lay down an suffer the consequences, or seek professional help and make  success of their life. However there are so many who still believe seeking help from professionals leave a stigma and they rather battle the odds with with dire consequences.

I myself was one of those who grew up in very poor circumstances, a violent alcoholic father who was responsible for me going into the world with no self confidence, self worth and a very bad self image. However my will to get out of the circumstances and better myself was very strong. I develop a spastic colon for many years as a result of stress and suffer badly when i had an intestine attacked. I forfeit many opportunities and lost many promotion because i lack the confidence to step forward. I became a human scientist to assist others who were left with similar circumstances, and today i can step out of the darkness into the light helping others to improve themselves and make a success of their lives.