We use the above phrases every day of our lives, but a very few people live these psychological boosting elements. What does these phrases really means and hoe is it applied in our daily lives. Let us take a few examples to demonstrate this. If a person who is called a friend of yours land in a very difficult position which involves you and he or she is prepared to save their own skin by throwing you under the bus, it entails this person has no integrity to accept responsibility for what has happened. Today people who are scared to take responsibility and also have no integrity because they will sell someone out to save own skin. If you and your friend is in an accident and someone dies and you put all the blame on your friend it entails their is no loyalty and integrity even if it is your fault. The same goes for trust. Trust can never be given but it is always earned by the way you act and apply yourself. I trust you with my life is easier said than done because if it comes to jail time more often people tend to turn on one another. Real trust, integrity and loyalty means that you are prepared to take a bullet for someone. Trust cannot be earned by one incident. It has to be a way of life for people to be able to judge you and then decide whether are worthy to be trusted. Dictatorial action never gains trust it creates fear. All relationships are very dependable on trust and if trust is absent that relationship is weak.That is why we have so much chaos in the world today because no one wants to trust another.Where are the days that we can declare my word is my bond. This entails even if you have to suffer because you gave your word you will accept it. I have taken the word on someone very important and trust him for what he was advocating just to lose nearly R27000 and the person has vanished. We get people who are so good in pretending that they con others at will. Trust, integrity and loyalty have become good words but are less and less practiced.
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