WHO ARE YOU

I had a young man of 28 years old who visit me the other day to assist him because he feels insecure and has an inferiority complex. He was very well dressed and good looking and when I saw him I thought by myself what has gone wrong here. I sat him down and asked him ordinary questions to make him feel at ease and then while we were talking I asked him where he comes from, his childhood, his parents and so on. He told me where he grew up but his father was a violent alcoholic, who hit him whenever he was drunk and told him he is nothing and he will never be someone. His confidence was very low and so were his self-worth and self-image. He managed to get a college diploma in electrical engineering but in his work, he always felt inferior. because the other engineers had University degrees and knew more than he did so they game him all the mundane work. This adds to his inferior complex. During the session I discovered he really wanted to work with people, that was his passion so electrical engineering was just a work to earn food on the table. Now we must recognize that so many people work in careers which they do not like but the did it because farther, mother or grandpa were in those careers. This and other factors which I have discovered assisted in his inferior complex and his unhappiness. If you do not know yourself and what your passion in life is you will always just work to put food on the table. Your personality can only change or grow when you really know who you are, what are your weaknesses and strengths. To become me is to discover myself then you can look at your circumstances and endeavor to change them. You will never be able to improve your life if you do not find your life's purpose. Life's purpose starts to make sense when your inner being is satisfied with your actions. When you have a purpose in life your life becomes meaningful and every day is an adventure. Those who slog through every day has no life purpose or passion for life. they just go through the motions to get it done. There is no pleasure in their work and they look forward to the weekends to get rid of the dreadful work they have to do every day. They get to work because they have to and not because they are enjoying what they are doing. This young man has got to the crossroads early in life, he is not yet married and has an opportunity to change what he is doing. I have also made sure that he understood the sacrifices he has to make. To change life direction after you are already employed is a very difficult situation because you have to ensure that all the responsibilities you have, have to meet. When you just left school or University it is so much easier because you have very little responsibilities to be considered. Choosing a life career becomes so much more important if you think od the long term consequences. Did you know that over eighty percent of working people are unhappy in their jobs because it is not their passion but a must to do to survive?. Are you one of them? Contact me to make it easier and make some of the dreadfulness disappear.